In consideration of Valentines day here is a list of fifty things that you can give to your spouse that will mean more and cost less than flowers or chocolate (though I recommend those as well). This list was compiled from a few different sources over several years and reflects the oft overlooked kindnesses that can make all the difference.
1. Start each day with a kiss
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times
3. Date once a week
4. Accept differences
5. Be polite
6. Be gentle
7. Give gifts
8. Smile often
9. Touch
10. Talk about dreams
11. Choose a song that can be “your song”
12. Give back rubs
13. Laugh together
14. Send a card for no reason
15. Do what your spouse wants before being asked
16. Listen
17. Encourage
18. Do it the other’s way
19. Know your mate’s needs
20. Fix his (her) favorite breakfast
21. Compliment your partner twice a day
22. Call just to say “I love you”
23. Slow down
24. Hold hands
25. Cuddle
26. Ask your spouse’s opinion
27. Show respect
28. Welcome each other home
29. Look your best for your mate
30. Wink at each other
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way
32. Apologize
33. Forgive
34. Set up a romantic getaway
35. Ask, “What can I do to make you happier?”
36. Be positive
37. Be kind
38. Be vulnerable
39. Respond quickly to your mate’s requests
40. Talk about your love
41. Reminisce about your favorite times together
42. Treat his (her) friends and relatives with courtesy
43. Send flowers every Valentine’s Day and anniversary
44. Admit when you are wrong
45. Be sensitive to your mate’s sexual desires
46. Pray for him (her) daily
47. Watch sunsets together
48. Say “I love you” frequently
49. End each day with a hug
50. Seek outside help when you need it